What to Expect at Your First AA Meeting

If you've never been to an AA meeting before, the first one can feel intimidating. You don't know anyone. You don't know what to expect. You might be scared of running into someone you know, or afraid of having to talk, or unsure whether you even belong there. Here's what actually happens.

What Happens at an AA Meeting

Most meetings start with the Serenity Prayer, a reading from How It Works, and announcements. There may be a speaker who shares their story, or it may be an open discussion where members share. Newcomers are introduced and welcomed but never pressured to speak. You can simply say 'I'm just listening today' and that is completely accepted.

Open vs. Closed Meetings

Open meetings welcome anyone — family members, people who are curious, people who aren't sure if they're alcoholic. Closed meetings are for those who have a desire to stop drinking. If you're not sure, go to an open meeting first.

Finding a Meeting

AABlueBook's meeting finder covers 100+ US cities. Find an open meeting near you tonight. The app also includes the full Big Book if you want to start reading before your first meeting. Free on iOS for a full year: bit.ly/aabfree. Android free month: FREEMONTHFL.